by Carolyn on September 22, 2009
I was struck by a blog post this week. This isn’t where I was planning on going with this second installment on parental alienation syndrome (PAS), but it is completely relevant and I think it brings up some interesting issues surrounding alienation in a family post divorce.
The post is from a great blog called Single [...]
by Carolyn on September 12, 2009
I think many co-parents have a bright shiny date in their future that they are waiting for like children on Christmas Eve. Oh yes, I’m talking about that magical birthday that will signal the removal of so many thorns in their sides. Although it’s not their own, it’s a birthday that they salivate at the [...]
by Carolyn on September 3, 2009
I know, I know, it’s Thursday. I’m not contemplating the day of the week. I’m thinking about Dr. Wednesday Martin Ph.D., and author of the new book Stepmonster. Someone who I started reading almost by accident and to be honest, I wasn’t her biggest fan. But as with most things that create an emotional response [...]
by Carolyn on August 31, 2009
I wrote this article for Vanessa Van Petten over at Radical Parenting It was an honor to be a guest author for such a fun and dynamic website!
Experts are fairly unanimous in their support of co-parenting for children of divorce. Both parents continuing to work closely together raising their children despite no longer being a [...]
by Carolyn on August 13, 2009
A reader asked me a question today and as I was responding, I noticed that my answer was looking less like a comment and more like a post. I had hoped to write lots of these ‘How To’s’, so with the opportunity to write one presenting itself so blatantly, I figured why not put one [...]
by Carolyn on August 5, 2009
You can tell me anything. Really, you can. And chances are I won’t tell anyone. I am a secret keeper and even when you don’t expect me to keep your secrets, I will. My first lesson in secret keeping was taught by a pair of socks. No, that isn’t a typographical error. My socks taught [...]
by Carolyn on July 30, 2009
If I had to choose one word to characterize how I viewed my parent’s divorce as a child, I would have called it ‘amicable’. That all too broadly used term assigned to divorces when the couple are not trying to tear each other’s throats out in public. It doesn’t mean the divorce wasn’t painful. It [...]