From the category archives:

On the lighter side

How To: birthday parties

by Carolyn on June 25, 2009

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After yesterday’s post, I felt like some levity was in order. I have been mulling over this post for a while now. I hope it’s tone and humour appeals to more than just us grown up children of divorce. This can be a funny subject too, you know.
Some of us may not need this little [...]

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Anthems

by Carolyn on June 30, 2009

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My friend Frank Fradella produces a weekly podcast called LINGO.  It is a collection of hand picked world pop music with the premise behind it being that music in and of itself transcends language and culture.  And I think he’s right.  I’m not a big listener of world music, but I’ve really enjoyed listening to [...]

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Take a moment to laugh at yourself

by Carolyn on July 3, 2009

Because suddenly everything will feel a bit lighter.  There’s a reason they call it comic relief.
After two emotional posts, some levity is in order and I have just video to bring it.  I need a day off myself to recover and I’m sure many of you do too.  I found this clip and it made [...]

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The ’step’ factor

by Carolyn on July 4, 2009

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Oh what a difficult road lies ahead for the person taking on the role of ‘step parent’.  It is a struggle.  An uphill battle. The experts give some insight on how to make it a little less painful but all agree that there will be mountainous bumps along the way.  They also list a number [...]

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What a find!

by Carolyn on July 26, 2009

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I found an article today.  It was written in 2005 by Elizabeth Marquardt and was published in the Chicago Tribune on November 6th. While reading it, I was nearly stunned.  Because she was writing about me!  It was almost like she had come here to this site and read all of my posts (which of [...]

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Too much information

by Carolyn on July 30, 2009

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If I had to choose one word to characterize how I viewed my parent’s divorce as a child, I would have called it ‘amicable’.  That all too broadly used term assigned to divorces when the couple are not trying to tear each other’s throats out in public.  It doesn’t mean the divorce wasn’t painful.  It [...]

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Just a thought…

by Carolyn on August 20, 2009

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Yesterday I read the most interesting article about children of divorce.  It discussed the impact of divorce and the issues that can arise from them dealing with an equal physical custody arrangement.  No new information really, as I happily skimmed along.
And then I read it.  And I had to read it again.  All I could [...]

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The rules of engagment

by Carolyn on August 25, 2009

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The good old fashioned argument

To fight or not to fight?  That is the question.  But don’t rush to answer because I’m adding another element.  To fight or not to fight….in front of your kids?  Yes?  Or would you go with no?
There seems to be two camps on the issue.  The ‘no way’ camp who believes [...]

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Hey, has anyone seen Carolyn?

by Carolyn on September 15, 2009

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Sorry.  No insightful essay today.  As much as I really wanted to produce one, I simply ran out of time.  Drat.
I have gone back to work.  My lovely hiatus in the name of all things baby has ended and I am transitioning back into ‘working mom’ mode.  My kids have been wonderful and are making [...]

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Top ten ‘divorce’ movie characters

by Carolyn on September 25, 2009

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I got this idea from Avitable.  I loved his top ten movie characters and I lamented in a comment that my blog wasn’t ‘cool’ enough to do the same.  His reply was, “Do it!”  So I thought long and hard about how I could approach my own top ten while keeping with the theme of [...]

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