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Being an ACOD

Worthy of my scar

by Carolyn on June 25, 2009

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I’m fine, thanks. Don’t worry about me. I’m good… really. We’ve all said them. Those words that tell others that we are fine and thereby don’t need their sympathy, support, care or concern. Even when sometimes we do. Why is that? A fear of vulnerability? A need to always appear strong? Or maybe a sense [...]

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A beautiful diversity out of divorce

by Carolyn on June 25, 2009

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Our diversity amazes me. Some of us were very young when it happened. Some of us were school aged or even teenagers. Some of us have watched a parent or two remarry. Some may have even sat through a few marriages. Some got step siblings. Some watched their parents have more children. Although we are [...]

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A wave is coming

by Carolyn on June 25, 2009

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I love imagery. I don’t know about you; but when I’m reading, I see a little movie in my head. I can create that movie simply from translating the words on the page into images myself, but those images tend to be blurry. Muddied by my own perceptions and connotations. But when a gifted poet [...]

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Being an acronym is great

by Carolyn on June 25, 2009

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Are you an ACOD (adult child of divorce)? I am. I think being an acronym is great. If I could have chosen any acronym, I might have chosen something a little more glorious, like a VIP or BFF. But I also could have done worse. I could be an SOB or worse still a POS! [...]

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Take a deep breath….and write!

by Carolyn on June 25, 2009

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Allow me to introduce myself. My name is Carolyn and I have been thinking about starting this blog for a long time now. I was worried though. Mostly worried about what others would think. What would my family, friends and husband make of all this. But I decided to heck with it! We need a [...]

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